The Konmari Method – Day 1

My blog is going to change for a little while. I’m going to be using it to document and keep me accountable in doing the Konmari method on my whole house. My house, on the whole, is pretty organized, but after reading this book I realize that it could be much better. If you decide to go on this journey with me, I won’t bore you with the concept because it is seriously all over the internet right now. I haven’t watched it yet, but Marie Kondo now has a show on Netflix which I think is called Tidying Up.

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Instead of organizing room by room, you declutter by category. The first one, and the one I started with is clothes. Like every method, you might need to modify it a bit to fit what works for you. I keep my clothes to a minimum. I also clean my closet out regularly. I didn’t take before pics because it really wasn’t all that different if you are just looking at it. Anyway, this is the after.

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I kept only what I absolutely loved, things that “sparked joy”.

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The top shelf holds my sweatshirts, sweaters and purses. I have 2 more sweatshirts that were in the laundry. Other than that, that’s it. I’m not super happy with the way my purses are placed. I think I need a rack for them. I also will eventually get matching velvet hangers for my hanging clothes. They are better for you clothes and are more pleasing to the eyes.

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I keep my pants and jeans folded on a shelf. The top shelf, that isn’t in this picture holds my capri pants and slacks. The middle shelf holds my skinny jeans on the left and regular jeans on the right. The left bottom basket holds my leggings and sweat pants and the right one has my running shorts. I love the Konmari folding method. You can always see everything all at once so nothing gets lost on the bottom of a pile.

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The top plastic storage drawers holds my denim shorts.

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The middle drawer holds my non denim shorts.

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The bottom drawer holds my caps, extra wallet and handbag accessories.

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I have the two bottom drawers. One holds my casual t-shirts, tanks and camis. The other one holds my bras, socks and undies.

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If you don’t use this folding method, you really should. It takes no more time than regular folding and I can look in my drawer and see everything at a glance.

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Regular bras and sports bras on the left. Socks folded in the middle two rows and underwear the last two rows.

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I have the bottom drawer of this chest. I keep my lounge wear in here.

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So this is my day 1. I donated 16 pieces and threw away 6. I’m very happy with the way it all turned out. I kept only the pieces I really love and fit well. I didn’t save anything “for one day”. I feel as though getting dressed is going to be so much easier.

I hope that this has inspired you to start your journey in decluttering your home.

Tomorrow is Day 2. That is going to be books and magazines.

Happy decluttering,

Stacy

 

 

 

Christmas Eve Box

I can’t believe that Christmas in in 4 days! 4 days!!!!!! This year we are getting to do Santa with our grandkids. Our plans weren’t set until less than a week ago, so there was a bit of scrambling, but I am beyond excited because our younger kids have not “done” santa in a few years.  It’s going to be fun to have “believers” in the house.

In case you didn’t know, we have a 30 year old daughter with 2 kids ages 3 and 4. A 26 year old daughter who can’t be here this year and our 11 year old son and 12 year old daughter.

The 2  youngest are pretty excited about getting to play santa this year, so we decided to put together a Christmas eve bag. They will be getting in around 8, so I didn’t include a Christmas movie. We have most of them anyway and I do want them to fall asleep at a semi reasonable hour.

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The grand kids have never gotten to do the whole Christmas eve experience, which I LOVE doing. It doesn’t have to cost a lot. You can add what you want. We’ve always done new pajamas to put on Christmas eve.

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These are for the boys, ages 4 and 11. I realize that they aren’t Christmas, but I looked all over our town and could not find any cute Christmas ones in 5T. No sweat, a yeti lives in the cold and it’s cold at Christmas (mostly). I also realize how cheesy Yeti 2 Party is, but they boys will be ready to party on Christmas day. Y’all, I can justify anything. Plus they match and the bottoms are so soft! Walmart special and I  didn’t think $9.oo/pair wasn’t too bad and by the time I found a 5t, I probably would have paid 900. As I’m typing this I realized I never looked at Target where now, in my mind, there are racks and racks of super cute 5T Christmas pj’s. Sigh

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These are for our 3 year old granddaughter and 12 year old daughter. I did find Christmas ones in 3T, but couldn’t get her the ONLY Christmas ones out of all the kids, so Elsa it is. Good thing she LOVES Frozen. My 12 year old is in adult sizes and I’d already picked some up for her. I was super thrilled to see how well they matched. The Elsa ones are from Walmart and the other ones are from Family Dollar. They were $10 and are incredibly soft. If you’ve never shopped at Family Dollar, don’t turn up your noses. They actually have cute stuff for the whole house at really good prices.

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You can’t have a Christmas eve box/bag without hot chocolate. This came from Heartisans Marketplace in downtown Longview, TX. It’s a wonderful little store, run by volunteers, that help women learn work skills to get back into the work force. Every bit of money goes back into the store and into helping the women. It wasn’t frugal at about $12, but sometimes it’s more than about saving money, ya know.

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My husband and I had been on the lookout for some cute kid friendly hot chocolate mugs. It seemed like we looked everywhere. I knew exactly what I had in mind, but the ones I found were all about $12.99 and I just couldn’t pay that for Christmas mugs. We found these at Dollar General for a buck a piece. The travel mugs will be perfect for the littles, non-breakable and have a top. Perfect. I just love the Santa ones, but as I look at the picture do the cheeks look like boobs???????? OMG, they do and now I can’t unsee it! I will NOT mention it to the kids. Oh, well, it is what it is.

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I added 2 books. The traditional Night Before Christmas, picked up at Books a Million and Baby Jesus. I cannot for the life of me remember where I bought this one. It tell the story of Jesus’s birth. I STILL use the Little People nativity scene that we’ve had for about 10 years, so I think I’ll let them act out the story with it. Except there is one small problem….

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Can you find the problem? We don’t have the shepherd. I think he was accidentally put in the Little People farm that we donated ages ago. I think the cow took his place because I don’t think it originally came with a cow. I think Joseph may have to do double duty and fill in for our missing shepherd. That could work, right?

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Last, but not least, we have the gingerbread house kit. Shout out to the cashier at Dollar General for letting us know that Walmart had them for $4, even though they were still marked $9. I think all the kids will enjoy assembling this. I was going to add more candy, but I think what it comes with will work and the less candy, the quicker we can get it done.

So, that’s our Christmas Eve bag. Just enough to get the kiddos really excited for the big day. What do you put in your Christmas eve box? I’d love suggestions for next year.

Merry Christmas,

Stacy

 

 

Oh Christmas Trees

It’s almost Christmas! I can’t believe how fast December has flown by. I would like to say that I’m 100% ready, but that would be a lie. I decided not to stress out this year and just take my time and enjoy whatever happens.

I normally get our decorations up before Thanksgiving. Well, that didn’t happen this year, but I was okay with it. We actually have two trees up. I have never been the type to have more than one tree, but there’s a reason that has changed. Donny and my first Christmas together was 2004. We were both working 6 days a week, open to close at the Harley dealership in Oklahoma. It was crazy and we had decided to not put up a tree. I couldn’t do it. I caved. We were living in a townhouse that wasn’t very big, so I went to Big Lots and found a $10 tree that was maybe 6 feet tall. It was perfect for what we needed and we just figured we’d get a new, bigger the next year.

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And here it is 15 Christmases later. I CANNOT get rid of it. It was our first tree and I have a weird attachment to it. It is the only tree my kids knew. They used to think it was HUGE. Not so much now, since they are almost as tall as the tree itself, but, if you think about it, it really has earned it’s keep at less than a dollar a year for all the  years we’ve used it. It may not be the most beautiful tree in the world, but there’s more to my sweet little tree than how it looks. It’s the memory that is attached to each skinny limb. One year I even lost one of the feet and had to anchor it to the wall to keep it from leaning. Now that’s love. For the record, my husband thought I was crazy to keep it. I found the missing foot after Christmas.

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It makes our seldom used living room much cozier.

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I absolutely love our little tree, but summer before last big brother tree came to live at our home. I was at Goodwill and there in the corner was a huge box. Of course I had to see what it was. Of course. It was a 7 1/2 foot Christmas tree for $4.99. I knew there was a chance that it wouldn’t have all the pieces, but I was will to take the chance. I mean, what frugal person wouldn’t.

Well, not only did it have all the pieces, it had the directions and extra pieces.

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Does it fit? Yes, if you shift everything around. I just love that it has found a new home with us. When I look on instagram I see all the homes that have the perfect tree. Everything is coordinated and magazine perfect. My home will never be like that. I obviously never “stage” pictures. What you see is how it is, but I like that better. It’s real life and my hodge podge tree is definitely real life.

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It was an ugly Christmas sweater party.

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A santa I got in a secret santa exchange MANY years ago hangs next to a stick reindeer.

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Our tin bear in the box that Donny brought home from work years ago.

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So try not to stress out this Christmas. Looking back to our first Christmas together, I don’t even remember the presents. All I remember is the feelings of love and thankfulness. Things do not have to cost a lot of money to bring happiness.

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Merry Christmas,

Stacy

The Compassion Experience

As you probably know, my family and I live in a smallish town. I say smallish because I have talked to people when I’m out and about, that are from VERY small towns and call Longview “the city”. As in, “we only come into the city when we have to because it’s so crowded”. The first time I heard this I had to look around to make sure I wasn’t being punked.

I have also heard, “how can you live in such a small town? There’s nothing to do.”  There is ALWAYS something to do, you just have to look a little harder than if you live in Dallas or Austin.

I was scrolling through Facebook when I saw an event I thought would be an awesome experience, not only for me, but for my kids.

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It’s called the Compassion Experience. There are several that travel around the United States. It gives you a first hand experience about what life is like as a child in a 3rd world country. Woo-hoo, it was coming to Longview!!! I clicked on the link, reserved our time and we were set.

When we drove up,  Jack thought it looked sketchy since it was next to the highway, in the church’s parking lot, but pretty far away from the church hosting it. The kids  really had very little interest. They would have much rather stayed home and gotten on their laptops, so I got a lot of grunts and okay fine. I wasn’t going to give in, because it was obvious to me that they needed a little wake up call.  I had been looking forward to this for weeks, so no matter the attitudes, it was on.

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The inside is much larger than it appears on the outside. That’s my blurry son on the left. We were each given headphones and a small ipad and told that we would learn about Kiwi from the Philippines first. If we liked it we were welcome to come back around and learn about Jey from Uganda.

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People in line for headphones. We are standing on the stairs waiting to go in.

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When you walk into each room you listen as a narrative is read, in a child’s voice, explaining what you are seeing.

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The hospital where Kiwi was born.

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Kiwi’s home. My kids were actually listening intently because, well, just look at how she had to live.  It is one thing when I make them watch youtube videos about this, but it’s a whole other thing to be immersed in it. And yes, I am that mother that would make them watch videos of kids from 3rd world countries so they could see that their lives were pretty darn good. DSCN1178

Jackson is standing in the “market”.  We were allowed to touch and explore.

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There is a “window” so you can see what the outside would be like. The kids thought this was pretty cool.

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The stories take you from hopelessness to hopeful. It is God centered, which we loved, but I understand this may not be everyone’s cup of tea. Before we went I read reviews. One reviewer said that they enjoyed it, but felt uncomfortable with the whole Christian aspect of it. Well, let me clue you in, if it’s sponsored by a church, in a church parking lot, it’s probably Christ based. I didn’t feel like it was shoved down your throat, but it was inline with my beliefs, so I wasn’t bothered by it at all.

At the end of the Kiwi tour, the real Kiwi appears on your screen and tells you about herself. Hannah was surprised because, in her words, she thought it was a generalized story about a made up person. Nope, it’s real and it just became WAY more interesting to them.

So kids, do you want to do they next one? Yes, they 100% did.

This one was a bit different. We did the first one as a group by ourselves. This one we did with a mom and her 4 year old son.

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Jey’s story was much sadder and grittier.   I was in tears by the end. I’ll paraphrase and show the pics. His mother made illegal moonshine and sold drugs to feed her family.

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15 people lived in his hut. They would fight for the bed.

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A meal for 15 people

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As a child, yes child, he spent time in jail. There was not enough food and the conditions were horrible.

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Learning about Jey’s life as it is becoming better.

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A school room

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Again, at the end, Jey came on our screens to tell us about where he is now.  Both had happy endings.  Yay! I think the kids enjoyed Jey’s story more than Kiwi’s, although both were extremely moving.

This exhibit is very well done. We truly felt as though we were in the places, living their lives with them.  I would highly recommend seeing it if it’s in your city. It created very good, thought provoking conversation on the way home.

This event was free, but at the end you have the option to “adopt” a child. There are pictures of different children on the walls as you leave the last rooms. There is no pressure to do this, they simply ask you if you are interested. We were not, and let me explain why. I didn’t realize that there was a homeless population in Longview. You just don’t see it simply driving down the streets. I want my family to get involved with helping people in need in our community.  Hopefully, by the end of the year I will have a blog post about just that.

Several children were “adopted” though.

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If you see this coming to your town, it’s worth the time to go. It takes about an hour if you choose to go through both experiences. The people running it are extremely nice and helpful and I think we walked away with a better understanding of what goes on in the world outside of our little bubble.

Stacy

 

 

CBD Oil – An Honest Review

First of all, I want to start off by saying I don’t sell this. I’m not pushing anyone to buy this. I just know that when I was doing research on cbd oil, I liked the honest reviews, the reviews by actual users who didn’t sell it. For some reason, when an MLM (that’s multi level marketing, otherwise known as direct sales) person is going on and on about benefits of their products, I tend to skip over those reviews.

So, here is our story.

Back when we lived in Louisiana, my husband heard about a product that helped with tics. Ever since my 12 year old daughter was a baby she had always “stimmed”. This just means that she had a repetitive movement. Hers were her hands. We had all types of tests run, from EEG’s to CAT scans. Nothing definitive ever came of them. It happens when she gets nervous, anxious or excited. We now believe that she has a very mild form of Tourettes.

When we moved to East Texas, we decided that we were going to give CBD oil a try. Our goal was to start her on it a week before school started, so we could see if there were any beneficial differences.  We had done a lot of online research, but I was very wary about buying from an online source. I wanted to actually talk to a knowledgeable  human to understand exactly what was in the product and to find out the difference between the strengths and what was right for us.

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This is CBD Express that is about 1 mile from our home. The store is owned by the nicest couple, the Scotts. I say nicest because they answered my million questions so patiently, giving me the information without at all being pushy or annoyed.

Here is the inside of the store. You can see why I had so my questions. There are a lot of different products and I really wanted to make sure I chose the right one.

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The top row is the sublingual oils. The second row is the syrup and vaping oil. The bottom row is the CBD Living Water. More about the water later.

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Soap and bath bombs. They also carry body lotion.

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Roll on pain reliever and the patches

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More products including the edibles

You can see why I was confused about what would be the best route to go. There are a lot of choices.

Here are some of the information they have posted. It will give you a good idea about just what CBD oil is used for.

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Click on the picture to make it larger so it’s easier to read.

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I chose the 1000 mg sublingual oil. I asked Mr. Scott if he knew if it worked for menopausal symptoms. I was having hot flashes like there was no tomorrow, and I was willing to try ANYTHING to help with these.  He told me that he had no idea, but he’d like to know. Going into this, I knew that I was going to be taking the oil also. I was not going to give something to my daughter that I had no idea how it actually affects the body. We decided that half a dropper, under the tongue morning and evening would be the starting dosage. CBD oil dosing is not an exact science because it can be different for everyone. You have to find that “sweet spot” that works for you.

With an oil purchase, you can purchase a bottle of the living water for $1.95. So, I left the store with a bottle of 1000 mg oil, a bottle of living water and a sucker for Hannah that he gave me for her to try.

So, here we go. We started the oil on August 14th.

When I got in the car, I opened the water. I drank some and I let Hannah drink some. I immediately felt calm. Seriously, immediately. Hannah said that she could feel her heartbeat slow. When she gets anxious, her heartbeat elevates. It was like Xanax in a bottle, without the narcotic side effects. Just very calming. Just a disclaimer here, there is NO THC in these products.

So far, so good. School clothes shopping that same day did not make me want to go insane. I do NOT like shopping, especially at the mall, but I was okay. I was much calmer and able to actually enjoy it. Hannah was less anxious and also enjoyed it.

We were off to a good start. We started on the drops that evening. The taste is not bad. You just squirt it under your tongue and hold it for 15 seconds before you swallow. Easy peasy.

Now, here’s where it gets crazy. I have had sciatica pain for almost  3 years. We are talking excruciating pain. At one point I was taking up to 12 ibuprofen a day! I had a tens unit that I would wear at least an hour a day. Donny would come home and I would immediately ask him to push on my hip to try and relieve the pain. I could not wear the same shoes 2 days in a row or I could barely walk. Y’all it was BAD!!!!! Life altering bad!

The second day I realized something was different and then it hit me. MY SCIATICA PAIN WAS GONE!!!! Just gone. Just like that. I couldn’t believe it. It couldn’t be the oil, could it? I’d only taken it twice. My life changed. I wasn’t in constant pain. I could walk. I could wear the same shoes every day if I wanted to. I didn’t have to take any ibuprofen, aspirin or tylenol. I felt 20 years younger.

I really thought at first it was a fluke, but almost 3 months later it is still gone. Nothing, nada, gone. Pain free for the first time in almost 3 years!

As for Hannah, one morning I forgot to give her the oil.  I asked her when she got home if she noticed a difference. She said, that explains why my leg was bouncing and I felt anxious. It has helped her so much. She is actually talking to people and initiating conversations. She is extremely shy and suffers from social anxiety. She is very self conscious of her stimming which causes the anxiety. I am very happy to report that her stimming has considerably slowed and her anxiety is almost non existent.

Would I recommend taking CBD oil. I would. The ONLY con in my list of pros is that it isn’t cheap. I can justify the price because it has eliminated my pain without having to take any kind of narcotic. It has helped my daughter without having to have her on some type of anxiety meds that take weeks to get into your system before they work and if she needed to get off of, we would have to wean her off of them. No thanks, I will pay more to have something that works almost immediately and if you stop taking it, there are zero side effects.

We have now moved up to the 1500 mg. The reason we did is because it only takes 1/4 of a dropper, instead of 1/2 dropper with the 1000 mg, and we don’t go through it as fast. A bottle lasts us about a month.

If you have any questions, you can email me or you can call the Scotts at CBD Express. Before I wrote this I told them I was going to and asked them if I could include their phone number and website. They said that if anyone had any questions they would be more than happy to answer them and to don’t hesitate to reach out to them. Seriously, they are passionate about helping people feel better.

They also ship their product, so if you are interested in purchasing anything CBD related, they are your people. (I am not being compensated for this blog) I completely trust them and what they stand for.

CBD Express

2551 Judson Rd Suite 1A

Longview, TX 7505

email: cbdexpresstx@gmail.com

website: cbdexpresstx.com

Phone: (903) 238-8118

As for the menopausal symptoms, my hot flashes have dramatically decreased. I am not irritated by the little things that used to set me off. Although I didn’t notice it as much, my husband did. The big plus is that I can feel better and not have to be on hormone replacement therapy which makes me very happy.

I hope this review helps anyone that is thinking about trying CBD products. If you decide this is something for you, no matter where you purchase it, make sure that you know the ingredients. There are some places that are not as honest and their ingredients are more the watered down version of what you should be taking. Just do your research so you can get quality ingredients.

Stacy

 

 

 

 

Easy Furniture Update

I sometimes feel as though I have more projects than time. I finally decided to tackle my 12 year old daughters room. Truthfully, she couldn’t care less what her room looks like, but since I care it was time to get started.

Here is a picture of her room from our old house. My husband found her chest of drawers at a junktique store in New Orleans. It had good bones, but was rough. The color was a whitish green. The knobs were some kind of metal buried underneath dark brown tarnish. I think the photographer (this is from when our home was for sale) doctored it up a bit, because it was worse than this.

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Hannah also needed a desk. It couldn’t be a regular student sized desk because she does a lot of art. We needed to find one that was large enough for to be able to work without feeling cramped. I picked up this one at the thrift store for 30 bucks.

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The size was perfect, but the top was kind of beat up. I also got her bookshelf to the left for free on Craigslist about 9 years ago.  The chair was from our old dining room set.

So with a few products, I completely changed the look of the pieces.

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I think they turned out really good.

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I have never spray painted a major piece of furniture, but I will now. The Rustoleum 2X ultra coverage is amazing! I only had to touch up a few places. Most of it was covered in one coat. I didn’t even sand it down.

For the knobs I used Bar Keeper’s Friend.

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I love the way they look against the Vintage Teal paint.

For the desk I sanded the top 4 times. I knew that it was going to have a “rustic” look, just because I have worked with this type of finish before. I was okay with that because I really like that look.

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I painted the chair to match.

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The color looks really blue in this picture, but it’s more of a turquoise.

I also painted the bookshelf.

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We still have a few more things we want to do in here. I’d like to find a larger rug and she really wants a swing chair, but I think we’re off to a good start.

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I love her day bed cover. It has all the colors that are in her room and it’s easy to slip off for sleeping. She uses a white down comforter that is stored in her closet when not being used. The picture below shows how much brighter it actually is.

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This picture turned out a little dark, but you can see the other side of her room.

 

One project down, many more to go.

Stacy

 

 

 

Fuzzy’s Taco Shop – Longview, TX

One of our most favorite places to eat is Fuzzy’s Taco Shop. Not only is it a bright cheerful place, the food is delicious!

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It just looks like a fun place to eat and it is. It’s not fancy. You order at the counter and you’re given a beeper thingy so you’ll know when your food is ready. You just go to this window and pick it up.

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I’ve always gotten the Baja Shrimp tacos. You have a choice of corn or flour tortilla. I get the corn because I just like them better. This is a weird picture of it, because you can’t even see all the yummy grilled shrimp, but I was REALLY hungry so at least I got this picture before I scarfed it down.

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Donny got the pulled pork nachos. They looked so good and he said they were. He is more adventurous. Once I find something I really like, I always order it.

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Hannah ordered the tortilla soup and Jack got the Seasoned Beef Nachos. They ate all of it, so I’m assuming it was tasty. I didn’t snap a picture, but I was feeling piggish and Hannah was still hungry so we shared some regular nachos with just bean and cheese. I love me some nachos and they didn’t disappoint.

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One of the very best things they have (if you’re over 21) is the frozen Jack & Coke. It’s truly an adult Icee! It was really hot on the day we went so Donny and I decided to indulge. Look at those frosty glasses!

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It’s a fun place to hang out on game days because there are several big screens. Donny was watching some baseball game that was on.

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Jack likes any place that has arcade games. Doesn’t even matter which ones they are.

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Although we don’t typically like chain restaurants, we make an exception for Fuzzy’s. If you are ever in Longview, or the other few states that have a Fuzzy’s, you should definitely give it a try.  The one here in Longview is at 310 E. Hawkins Pkwy. If you’re in the Dallas/Fort Worth area, the original is in Fort Worth.  Oh my yum, it’s good!

Stacy

 

Estate Sale

When Donny and I moved to Longview, we ended up renting a house that was almost twice the size of our home we had for sale in Baton Rouge. This was fine, except for now we had two living areas and only had furniture for one. One of my biggest pet peeves is having rooms that you don’t use. I hate wasted space. I had just thrown some chairs I had on hand in there.  I wanted to go shopping to find the right furnishings, but the fact that we were still paying bills and the mortgage for the house we had for sale plus rent and bills for our rental here in Longview,  it just wasn’t in the budget. Not to mention that we had a giant tree fall at the house in Baton Rouge and had to shell out almost a $1000 to get it cut up and hauled away. I just had to be patient, which is hard for me.

On a trip to Dallas we stopped by Ikea and found a couch that we both really liked. The only problem was that we would have to rent a uhaul to get it home. Not an easy task, but it was doable. Still I didn’t want to pull the trigger yet. It was almost $1200 and although I love ikea, I still thought that was pretty steep and wanted to look around some more.

We also needed a new fridge. We left ours in the Baton Rouge house because it was an incentive to a potential buyer to not have to purchase one and because we really didn’t want to move it. Those things are HEAVY! I got a used one when we moved. We knew as soon as the Baton Rouge house sold it would free up our budget to get the one we wanted.

The house sold about a week before school started. We began to seriously start looking for furniture and a refrigerator. The Home Depot had the one we wanted. Side by side, water and ice. Basic, but still a little over $1100. I just couldn’t do it. I wanted to wait to see if they would go on sale or maybe we could find a scratch and dent one. Y’all, I just couldn’t spend that kind of money for a fridge. Just couldn’t.

Two weeks ago this happened. By total accident. I was just taking a short cut through my neighborhood.

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I had seen the signs earlier in the week, so I was positive that nothing good would be left. It was Friday and the last day of the sale. I still wanted to check it out.

When I pulled up and parked, I saw this lady struggling to get a computer desk to her car. I got out and helped her carry it. We tried, unsuccessfully, to get it into her small car. I told her that if she’d let me look around a few minutes, I’d put it in my SUV and take it to her house for her. She said she wanted to look some more too, so that would work.

I walked into the kitchen and BAM!!!!! guess what was for sale?????? A side by side fridge with ice and water. I grabbed the tag off of it. It was $230!!!! I was SO excited! I got even more excited when I walked into the living room and saw the perfect sofa. I sat on it and it was perfect. I swear, it had never been sat on. DSCN0891.JPG

(Picture is from my living room. I didn’t bring my camera because I didn’t know I was even going to stop at the sale)

It wasn’t the type I was looking for, but I loved it. I immediately called Donny at work and told him that I found a sofa AND a fridge. The sofa was priced at $250. He told me to get them both. It was such a great deal. Wait, it gets better. Since it was the last day EVERYTHING was half off! What the what? So, my fridge would be $115 and the sofa $125.

You may be wondering why in the world were they still there? Because when you buy them, YOU have to figure out how in the world you’re going to get them home. Donny was super busy at work and couldn’t rent a truck and help. I was stuck. The ladies at the sale were trying to come up with a solution. I threw caution to the wind, and paid for everything. I knew I’d find a way, I just didn’t know how. It was 11:00. They were closing at 6, so I had 7 hours to come up with a plan.

Remember the lady I helped out when I first got there? Well, she had found some more furniture she wanted to get so she found me and told me not to worry about helping her get her desk home. She had called a friend, with a truck, to help her move the stuff. There is was, the answer to my prayers.

When he showed up I asked him if there was anyway he would be willing to move the fridge and the heaviest couch I’d ever seen to my house around the corner? He said he’d be happy to! Holy wow, it pays to be nice because if I wouldn’t have helped the lady earlier, I would never have met Byron, my moving angel.

So, with my new friends, we moved a fridge, a sofa, a chair and ottoman and a coffee table to my house. Hey, I was there for over 4 hours because of a torrential downpour and it was all HALF PRICE!

So, here is my family room with the new (to me) furniture.

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The leather chair and ottoman’s final price was $40. It’s a great cream color and is in excellent condition and most importantly, comfortable.  Donny calls it a real chair, unlike my dark brown bucket chairs that he is not overly fond of.

The coffee table was $30. It was more expensive than I would have liked, but I just really loved it. I’m not really into the farmhouse look, but it goes really well in this room.DSCN0889

I had told Donny that the sofa was pleather. Not my favorite fabric, but it was so pretty, I was okay with it. When he got home and finally saw it, he wanted to look at the tag because he didn’t think it was pleather.

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Well, guess what? He was right. I got a leather and wood, barely used sofa for $125. Even the back was pretty, which was a very good thing because it faces our fireplace.

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I can’t forget to show the fridge. It’s beige, not the color I would have chosen, but it matches our cabinets perfectly, and just kind of blends in.

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The freezer side was a bit smaller than the one we had seen at The Home Depot, but we have a stand up freezer in the garage, so it’s not a problem.

We still need a few things for the house like a rug to layer over the jute rug in the family room. We also need a chair, I have one in mind, for the family room so I can move the brown bucket chair into the living room with the other one. I’m still looking for a small table for our breakfast nook. The one I have in there right now works, so it’s not a pressing issue.

My advice is if you are needing furnishings for your home, be patient and have an open mind. Don’t overlook a good deal just because it’s not exactly what you are looking for. The things I purchased at this estate sale might not have been exactly what I was looking for, but they work perfectly for what I needed them to do and for $310 plus the $100 I paid Byron to deliver everything, I saved a ton of money, which makes me very happy.

Stay frugal,

Stacy

 

The Hick & Frog

Isn’t it fun when you find a restaurant you’ve never seen before right in your own downtown? I think it is! It was lunchtime, we were starving and how cute is this place?

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Yep, a French bistro, with a funny name right in downtown Longview. Score!

When you walk in there is a blackboard menu that has an abundance of choices. It was definitely hard to decide. The gentleman taking the orders was so nice and answered any questions I had. I wish I’d snapped a picture of the board. Anyway, this is the heavenly creation I chose.

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It’s a French grilled cheese. I call it fantasy grilled cheese. It’s made with Swiss, ham and bechamel sauce. The inside was gooey deliciousness with the perfect amount of ham. The cheese on top added the perfect crunch. (CHEESE ON TOP!) The side salad was so fresh, it seemed like they must have a garden right outside. It was served with a vinaigrette that was the perfect addition and didn’t overpower the greens. The buttery garlic croutons gave it just the right amount of crispness. Oh mylanta, it was so good! 👍

If you are looking for a healthier choice, there is this.

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Donny ordered the Salmon Poke Bowl. It has salmon, edamame, greens, cabbage and avocado. I took a bite and it was amazing. There was a sesame seed dressing that I probably could have just poured in a cup and drank. Everything was so fresh and crisp.

We heard the bread pudding was out of this world, but we were so full by the time we finished we had no room left. 😢

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The decor is so clean and bright. I felt fancy just eating there. 😃

I highly recommend if you ever visit Longview, TX, to stop by the Hick & Frog. You won’t be disappointed. The atmosphere is fun and the food is phenomenal.

Just look at how much fun Donny was having laughing at me.

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Life’s an adventure,

Stacy

Jefferson, TX – ghost tour and last day

The only thing we had actually planned to do while we were in Jefferson, was the historic Walking Ghost Tour. It started at 8:00 and begins right in front of our hotel. After we woke up from our nap, we were hungry and had about an hour before we needed to buy our tickets for the tour.  After asking around, we decided on Lamanche’s, an Italian restaurant that is located inside the Jefferson Hotel.

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Donny ordered the sausage and peppers with pasta. He said it was just okay, a little bland. The side salad he got with it was really good though. The Italian house dressing is the bomb! I ordered the Italian nachos. I LOVE nachos! The base of these were wonton wrappers. They were loaded with chicken, cheese white sauce, olives and tomatoes. I’m sure there was more ingredients that I’m leaving out, but they were GOOD! The wait staff were so friendly and the prices were fair.

DSCN0686Y’all, I had to share these with Donny because that was A LOT of food.

DSCN0685That was the side salad. The server even brought us extra house Italian dressing to dip our bread in. I have decided that calories don’t count when you’re on vacation, even a mini one. Donny gave us more ambiance by plugging in the lights behind him.

One thing to remember if you visit Jefferson, don’t be in a hurry. The pace is slow here. Every place we have eaten has taken a while. Enjoy the experience. Talk to the people around you. You might even make new friends.

DSCN0698The Jefferson Hotel. The restaurant is on the bottom left. The guests staying here have a great little balcony to hang out on. It’s also, supposedly, one of the most haunted places in Texas. A jilted bride hung herself from the bed post and is said to haunt the hotel. The bed is actually still there. There are also reports from guests of ghost children.

DSCN0701It was finally time for the tour. Jodi Breckenridge gives the tour. It’s close to 2 hours long and the tickets are $15.00 online or $16.00 if you buy them directly from Jodi. I highly recommend this tour. Jodi is a true historian of Jefferson. Yes, it’s cool to hear all of the ghost stories, but the history that you learn about is almost better. The places you visit on the tour varies, depending on the availability of the of the residences that let you go inside. One that is normally on the tour had a private party going on. Yes, you will walk a lot. Yes, it’s dark and spooky, but it’s a heck of a lot of fun.

When we started there was lightening and the sky was unusually dark. We were trying to hurry because if it rains too hard, the tour will be cancelled.

Here are some of the pics from our tour. I didn’t see any ghosts, but that’s okay with me.

DSCN0705Learning about the Sterne fountain. There were probably about 15 of us on the tour.

DSCN0709The guy in the white shirt is Brent. He was slightly drunk and SO funny. The guy to his right is my friend Sherri’s son, Karl. Sherri is in the red shirt. If the tour hadn’t had been as awesome as it was, it would still have been fun just hanging out with them.

DSCN0718We got to go into the Old Mill Antique Store. Very spooky. Very dark. There is one ghost that people see consistently here. Jodi showed us pictures, taken on many different tours of the ghost. It’s the same face in every picture. I love how she tells the stories as we are walking through. Adds that perfect touch of scary.

DSCN0716Because it was SO dark, I didn’t get many pictures in here. We were all using our cellphone flashlights to try not to knock items over.

 

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By the time we got to McGarity’s restaurant it was pouring rain. Candace and her husband own the restaurant and they live upstairs. She graciously let us tour her home. These are the stairs you climb to enter her home. A bit eerie wouldn’t  you say?

DSCN0711Brent photobombing my picture. DSCN0714Her home was beautiful. They have a female ghost that likes to open windows and doors and move things around. I took a lot more pictures, but for some reason they are not on my camera. This was my favorite stop, so I was really bummed because her home was gorgeous!!!

DSCN0736This is Jodi, our tour guide. There is so much I didn’t write about. I was limited in the pictures I was able to take due to the rain. We got to go into the General Store and hear the history and ghost stories. We learned about the different murders that have taken place over the years. We learned about the history of Jefferson. If you are interested about hearing some of the stories, please google Jefferson, TX. It’s really worth the read. Diamond Bessie, William Perry and Jay Gould are a just a few google ideas.

The next morning was check out day. My friend Sherri and her son Karl were staying at the Excelsior Hotel in the Jay Gould room. This is the hotel’s most famous room. Steven Spielberg stayed there before he was famous. He and his crew were scouting sites for Sugarland Express. He got in late, threw his suitcase on the rocker in the room and it flew back at him. If that didn’t freak him out, he was woken up by a little boy at the side of his bed asking if he was ready for breakfast. He woke his crew up and they were out of there.

https://bumpinthenightblog.wordpress.com/2012/06/07/where-steven-spielberg-fears-to-tread/  Here is an article about it and another incident that happened in that room.

DSCN0765The second oldest hotel in Texas, built in 1858. In case you were wondering, the Menger, in San Antonio is the oldest.

DSCN0747The infamous rocker in the Jay Gould room.

DSCN0749Sherri and me. I love that I got to meet a friend, that I met in a facebook group, that just happened to be here the same time we were. What an awesome room also!

DSCN0754Excelsior House courtyard from the second floor balcony. They had breakfast there that morning.

DSCN0760The dining area

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The entrance where the registration desk is.

 

DSCN0764There are interesting things all around the town

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It was finally time to check out. Denise, one of the managers, let me in to see the apartment that was too haunted for Eric, the owner, to live in. I want to bring the kids back and stay in it.

DSCN0695The living/dining room. The door on the right leads out the the balcony.

DSCN0697The fully equipped kitchen. The fridge doors would open and the microwave would start by itself. The amazon echo also flew off the table in the living room, hitting the fridge. The door is open and you can see down the second floor hallway.

DSCN0696The bedroom. The bathroom is connected, I just didn’t get a picture of it. This suite is available for less than $200/night. What a deal!

DSCN0772This was the room next door to us. Denise was straightening it up and I asked it I could see it. It’s slightly bigger than ours and has a mini kitchen. Remember, if you want to see something just ask. The worst they can say is no. I wouldn’t have seen the apartment if I hadn’t asked to see it.

DSCN0745Our room. It was small, but perfect. After googling all the rooms at the different hotels we chose the Kahn because it was recently renovated (2 years ago) and although the building is from the 1800’s, the rooms were brand new.

DSCN0769One last picture of our hotel as we are getting ready to head out of downtown. When you first get to Jefferson, it feels as though you are being enveloped in a magical, historical, spooky bubble. A step back in time where things were more simple and slower paced. I’m so glad that we chose to come here. I can’t imagine a more perfect weekend getaway.

I hope that if you are reading this, you too want to experience Jefferson. It truly is a magical place.

One more stop before we actually head home…….

Stacy