Rough

It has been a rough several days. Friday I did way too much lifting when I rearranged the shed, which caused by lower back to spasm up again. I do know better, but when I want something done I want it done right then. Plus, I knew that we were going to have bad weather coming.

My goal on Saturday was to go through my closet and clean out all of the summer clothes, which required more lifting. I did get it done and it feels good, like a weight lifted off my shoulders. Since Donny and I share an extremely small closet I have to be intentional about what goes in. I filled a laundry basket full and then emptied the drawer with my swimsuits, tank tops and cover ups.

These space bags worked so well.

Because our closet is so small I store my jeans and pants in baskets I picked up years ago for $3.99 at a thrift store.

I’m a very casual dresser as you can probably tell.

Sunday was Donny’s day off. He gets every third Sunday off. We were out of milk, which I need for my coffee, so he got up early and came back with cream horns that I happily ate at the patio table. They were so flaky and creamy. It was a decadent breakfast, but it was so good.

It was a very grey day with showers predicted in the afternoon. I don’t mind days like this especially when I’m feeling under the weather. It means true Fall weather is on its way.

Donny was able to clean out one of the gardens. We got a nice little haul.

Donny has lost his glasses months ago. He swore he lost them at work. He looked everywhere and I tore the house up also looking for them. Then lo and behold, look what he found in the garden.

We’re not sure how he dropped them out there, but I think I can straighten them out so he can wear them again.

By Sunday night my back was killing me. The TENS unit gave a bit of relief. I got on our shake machine and it helped.

I took a hot bath with a lot of this in it.

I am NOT a bath person, but I was getting desperate. It made it bearable that I took my laptop into the bathroom and watched Twisters while I soaked. It’s actually a good movie and I would have loved to see it in 4D, but we didn’t have anywhere near us that it was showing with those effects.

The bath, shaker and TENS seemed to have done the trick about 60%. I’m just going to need to be very careful until, hopefully, everything heals.

Busy Bees

We were able to get so much done yesterday. Thankfully it was a gorgeous day outside. I was able to mow in a sweatshirt and joggers and not even break a sweat. When the weather is in the low 70’s it seems like everyone is in a better mood, even the chickens.

Donny worked on doing a deep clean on the chicken coop getting it ready for winter. It never gets very bad because they are only inside to lay eggs and roost at night. He added more hay than we normally do in the summer to keep them warm since the temperatures will be dropping later this week.

He had to run to the feed store to get more shavings and when he did he accidentally left his phone and wallet on the roof of the car when he was leaving. He saw them fly off when he was on the loop. He had to go back and as he pulled over an 18 wheeler ran over his phone. If you need a good phone case get the ONN brand from Walmart. There was only a tiny crack in the case at the corner. Everything else was fine. He did lose a couple of dollars when his wallet flew off, but managed to find his fishing license so that’s a win.

While he was running his errand I was busy in the shed going through clothes that we had put away. I ended up donating 8 bags. It’s such a good feeling to lighten the load.

I had washed out our Brita pitcher. I couldn’t relate to people saying how long it took for their water to filter. Mine always just filled up so fast. I always wondered just how it did it so fast. That’s when I took the filter out and realized I had never inserted it correctly. So basically, we’ve just been drinking tap water for months.

I also realized that I like the taste of tap water better than the filtered.

Since the cats DO NOT like the mower I decided to give them a little catnip treat. Queso hogged all of the first pile. When Milo got a pile he REALLY like it a lot.

He’s done so well with coming inside at night. Last night Donny was in Milo’s chair. He feels safe in that chair because he’s still afraid of the ceiling fan and a/c. He laid like this watching Donny until Donny realized that he was wanting to go to sleep on his chair.

Happy boy!

One that isn’t so happy is Monkey. She does not like Milo or Queso. All they want to do is be her friend, but this is the face they get when they are in the house.

Now I’m off to do a quick clean on the house so that I can go through my closet and do some purging. We bought some space bags to condense everything. I hope they work.

Hangover

I don’t know about anyone else, but for the last week I’ve woken up daily feeling like I’ve got a hangover. I think it was the whole election. A week ago I was so anxious. I don’t watch main stream media. I find that I’m in a much better head space if I don’t. Donny, however, loves to watch it. He argues loudly with the television and, at times, it can really stress me out. I didn’t really watch any polls. I held steadfast that the candidate I voted for would win even if I live with a slight pessimist that would tell me not to get my hopes up because of what he would see on the news stations. Tuesday night I couldn’t even make dinner so Jackson and I picked up Wing Stop. Then when Donny got home from work we started watching as the polls closed one by one. Because we use streaming services and our local stations can be somewhat spotty, we ended up on CNN, ABC and NBC. I was watching The Charlie Kirk Show live on TikTok. I had been on a prayer Live for three hours the night before as the prayer wave crossed all of the time zones. I was exhausted from that and it didn’t help the headache I was beginning to get. By 11:00 I was done. I just couldn’t stay up any longer. What happens would happen whether or not I was awake or asleep.

The next morning I actually slept in until almost 7. I had only been getting about 5 hours of sleep per night the last week. Donny was still asleep so I quietly got up to go make coffee. When I unlocked my phone, the first text I saw was from my friend in Oklahoma. I hadn’t turned on the news yet. She sent me a TikTok with the election results. All of the stress that I had felt, but just kept to myself, came flooding out of me. I just started crying. I went into the bedroom to tell Donny the good news but I couldn’t even get the words out. He thought something bad had happened. Then the only words I could squeak out was “he won”.

There are so many people devastated by what I consider one of my best mornings ever. I don’t hate them and I don’t blame them for feeling like they do. I did go back to see some of the the highlights of the propaganda they were being sold. It was disgraceful. They were lied to and I can’t even put into words the fear mongering they were subjected to. The main stream media should be ashamed of themselves and I do believe they should be held accountable.

I was raised in a home that openly talked about politics. My dad was a democrat and my mother was a republican. I have voted both ways. I vote for the candidate that I think will do the best job and I think that Trump, with his amazing team, will do just that. No matter what side you are on, pray for unity in our country because it really needs it right now.

My 2016 voting sticker. I loved that it had Blue Dog on it. A blue dog exhibit just opened here and I can’t wait to go see it.

My 2024 sticker.

Now to get on a less serious subject. Donny and I went to Home Goods the other day to pick up some more glass food storage containers. They had just put out carts of 50% off items and I found the best candle ever.

The lid looks just like Milo!

Not only am I having that hangover feeling, but I also hurt my back again. It hasn’t been the same since I face planted on the bounce house slide. Donny picked up this TENS unit from Walgreen’s and boy has it helped. It’s much fancier than the one I used to have because it has so many different modes. I highly recommend getting one if you have any pain.

We’ve been having so much rain these past few days that it has really caused my allergies to flair up. I saw this trend online where you put garlic cloves up you nose. Even though Donny thought I was nuts, it did make my nose run A LOT when I took them out.

And last, but not least, I’m still feeding our little crew of animals. The skunks are definitely the alphas of the group. The other raccoons won’t even come out if the skunks are there. I also found that we have a little mouse living in the coop with the chickens. They aren’t bothered by it. I guess the little guy just snuggles up with them at night.

New Month

October was a challenging month. Donny’s shoulder got a little better and then it moved to his elbow. He went to the doctor and they ran a complete blood panel and everything came back good. They have no idea what is causing this migratory joint swelling. We went to his family reunion and one of his cousins has the exact same thing and they doctors can’t figure out what causes his symptoms either. Well, since last Sunday, it has left his shoulder and moved into his knee. It’s so painful that he is having a hard time walking. This has been happening since the kids were little. It only happens in either October or November, but it has usually only affected his foot and ankle. The big thrift store is having a 5 cent book sale the month of November. I found this book today. I’m hoping I can find something in it to help him. He does have a follow up appointment on Thursday.

There is a mama cat and her two kittens that hang out across the street. The, what I’m assuming is the dad, has been hanging out on our driveway and patio. I have been putting food and water out for them in our ditch because they feel safer eating where they can’t be seen and have the storm drain to run into if they feel threatened. The neighbor across the street on the corner has set a live trap to try to catch them. Luckily I was notified of this by my other neighbor so I can keep an eye on it. So far she has only trapped a possum. I’m hoping it’s not one of the ones that I feed. I’ve seen the larger possum and thought I saw the smaller one, but I only saw its face so I can’t be sure which one it was. The skunks are getting along with the possum(s) now and I’m still feeding the 3 raccoons. I came out tonight and the largest raccoon was stuffing his mouth with marshmallows like a little kid gorging on candy. Raccoons have a huge sweet tooth.

All of our cats have a 10 o’clock curfew now. I always make coffee and then let our cats outside. I go with them and have my coffee on the patio. The other morning after I let them out they went into the front yard and then bolted past me onto the grill. I stood up to see what was going on and I saw this HUGE coyote coming across my yard. I immediately started yelling at it and chased it down the street. I’m worried about the mama cat, kittens and Mr. Whiskers, the dad. So far everyone is still doing good.

Mr. Whiskers just chilling.

I’m going to be trying to keep up with my blog this month. Donny has been having to sleep on the couch so he doesn’t roll over on his elbow, shoulder and knee which means I’m not sleeping well. I used to think I wanted land to live on, but taking care of the animals we have and everything else while Donny is incapacitated has made me change my mind.

We did early voting last Friday. I think I’m getting election fatigue. I am very ready for November 5th to roll around. Only 4 more days!

And yes, I went to the polls with no makeup and needing to shower but we just wanted to get it over with and avoid the lines on election day.

Small Spaces

I have spaces in my home that just make me happy. It could be one of my kids artwork. It could be shelves that I made that hold things that are special to me.

With little storage in our kitchen I have shelves that hold staples that I use on a regular basis. The shelves were given to me by a friend. Thank you Cindy. The bakers rack below it was found on a curb on my street in Baton Rouge and was helped carried home by that same friend.

Donny and I built shelves that fit in the kitchen nook window.

At night, with the twinkle lights turned on it looks so cozy.

I love when the suns shines in to the window above the sink because it bounces little pops of color from my stained glass.

When we got rid of Jack’s dresser I repurposed the drawers into shelves. The ones in the dining nook holds cookbooks and other fun little treasures.

I love plants

We have very few pieces of furniture that we have bought new. This green shelving unit is one of them. It’s from Nadeau, started off turquoise because we bought it specifically for our kitchen in Baton Rouge. I painted it green and I like it even better.

When our home flooded in 2016, I saved some of the drawers from our bedroom and made these shelves. I love the thrifted lamp with the stained glass bulb.

I love having shelves because storage is at a premium in our home. These are the most recent ones in our bedroom.

No matter what type of home you live in only bring in things that make you happy. Your style is your style. You don’t have to follow trends, unless that is what you like. Grow and bloom where you’re planted.

I’d like to introduce you to Stevie Wonder. I named him that because apparently skunks are blind. He was outside eating at the cat bowl and on the way to his food ran right into my leg. Didn’t even phase him, he just kept on to his destination. I think he’s getting used to me.

Baby It’s Cool Outside

Today I had planned to go out into the shed and unpack my cooler weather clothes. Unfortunately, Donny stayed home with a migraine and I was also not feeling well. I think there is something going around. It could also be that my foot caught on the chefs mat in the kitchen night before last and I face planted narrowly missing whacking my head on the kitchen table. I am a bit sore today.

The mornings have been getting colder. One morning there was even frost on the windshield. Right now my closet is geared toward summer. I’ve been living in old sweatshirts that just didn’t get packed away. I find that if I don’t get dressed, in actual clothes I would be seen outside of the house in, I am way less productive.

Wednesday, when Jackson got home from school, he asked if we could go back to Big Thrift Store to see if there were any more concert tees. I was still on the lookout for a trivet to replace my broken one. I actually found one.

That’s all we found there, so I asked him if he wanted to stop by Goodwill. It’s on the way home and sometimes they have some good stuff. I found a a vintage Foley rolling pin for $1.99.

This cute metal star that I hung in our bathroom. It was only 99 cents.

I am always looking for jeans for Hannah because that’s what she wears to work. I found her a great pair of Maurice’s jeans and then I found the cutest pairs of jeans for me.

I didn’t realize how blurry the last pic was, but they fit like a glove and are going to be perfect for Fall and Winter. I also picked up this waffle weave shirt that I love because it has banded sleeves. It’s so cozy.

I took this cute picture of Milo today. It’s so hard to believe that he was once this very feral scared cat. He came to us when he got hurt and almost died. He now loves to be held and gets separation anxiety if he doesn’t know where I am. I’m so thankful that God put him in our path.

Bougie ER

Last week Donny somehow hurt his shoulder. Like HURT it. We aren’t really sure how he did it, but we suspect he slept on it wrong and then wrenched it when he was pushing up to get out of bed. Night before last it was so bad that I suggested we go to the ER to see if they could give us any answers.

We decided on Hospitality ER because why go to a uncomfortable, wait forever, corporate owned ER when you can go to a patient centered family owned one. They have valet service. When you walk in this is what you see.

All of their seating is so comfortable.

They called Donny back within 10 minutes of us being there. I sat with him in the first room where they started his IV pain medicine. They then took him to Xray and a CAT scan. I went back out into the waiting room for that, but Donny said his next room had a pull out couch, snacks and a drink fridge.

I was getting hungry so I made myself a Dove hot chocolate with this amazing machine that you but a Dove pouch in and the richest, hottest hot chocolate comes out. I chose a rice krispie treat and sat back to read my book while I waiting for him to be released.

After only 2 1/2 hours the doctor said that there was something going on with his shoulder but they really needed to do an MRI to get a better image. They scheduled one for the following morning, but Donny ended up cancelling it because his shoulder was feeling a little bit better and he had a physical therapy appointment today. I’m glad that we did go to the ER just to rule out anything being super seriously wrong. We also got a goody bag to take home with us.

I wish that all hospitals cared about their patients as much as Hospitality does.

Easy Dinner + New Scent

Some days I just don’t feel like cooking a big, made from scratch, meal. Last night I made one of the easiest dinners ever. Prep time took 5 minutes and everyone loved it.

You just take 8 frozen burritos. I get the bean and cheese in a bag from Aldi. 2 cans of enchilada sauce and a block of colby jack cheese. You can use whatever cheese you like, but i highly suggest grating it yourself because it just melts better.

Preheat oven to 375. Grease a 9×12 dish. Put the frozen burritos in the dish. Pour both cans of enchilada sauce on top and bake for 30 minutes. Put the grated cheese on top and bake for an additional 5 minutes. There you go, that’s it. I made cilantro lime rice to go with it. It’s even good heated up the next day if you happen to have leftovers.

I also picked this up from Aldi. I have a slice of sourdough toast every morning and this with it just hits the spot.

One thing I love about Fall is all of the spicy smells. I’m not a big pumpkin spice fan, but I love cinnamon, nutmeg, clove, etc. I found this Mrs. Meyers dish soap and had to give it a try. It smells so good. I normally use the lilac scent, but I love this for Fall.

It’s getting cooler outside and I’m loving it

One On One Time

I love when Jackson and I get to spend time together. Yesterday he woke up early and wanted to go to Game Exchange and Games 2 Go. He collects vintage gaming systems and wanted to try to find some new games. He was also looking for a game for Hannah. We didn’t find anything so we decided to go to the thrift store we call relish. We call it this because the wax warmer scent they use smells like relish to Jackson.

No trivet there, but Jackson found a Pepto Bismol hoodie for Hannah that he thought she’d like and I found two pairs of jeans and 3 tops. Because it was Saturday we got to spin the wheel they have by the checkout to see what discount we would get. I got $5 bag of clothes which took my total from $20 to just $5.

These jeans fit so well and are wide leg. Perfect for Fall/Winter.

I thought these were just cool with the patches on them.

These will be good to transition from out cool mornings to warmer days.

I also picked up two books by one of my favorite authors.

We then decided to go to Gifts of Grace which we call the big one. I didn’t find one dang trivet, but Jackson found a whole slew of concert tees. He came up to me and showed me the 2001 Jimmy Buffett shirt. He knows how much I loved Jimmy and told me that I could have it. Funny though, it’s still in his room. I have been to several of his concerts and am really sad that Donny and I never got to go to one before he passed. Those were such fun concerts.

He found an Elton John one, a Kiss road crew, a SZA and I found the Oysterhead head tee. I really liked that one, but so did Jackson so, of course, I let him have it.

I did manage to find one he didn’t want that I thought was cute.

By this time I was starving. The blood sugar had dropped, shaky hands, might pass out starving. Since Jackson and I are the only ones in our family who likes Taco Bell, that’s where we went. I haven’t eaten Taco Bell in ages. I haven’t gone inside to eat in years. Holy cow, it has definitely changed. You don’t even order from a person, but a kiosk. It was fun hanging out and having some good talk with him. He’s such a good kid. Very thoughtful toward other people.

And just because my second oldest, who lives in the hill country, makes fun of me for how much food I leave out for the animals here is their buffet from last night.

Guess what? We not only have two raccoons, but THREE now. I guess word gets around.

Chores

Donny was off today so we decided to tackle some things that have been needing to get done. I’m always the first one up in the mornings. I have a set routine that needs to get done on a daily basis. I always start the coffee when I first get up. Then I let the cats out and make sure they have food and water outside and check and refill their food inside. After that I grab a cup of coffee and wait for the sky to lighten up so that I can let the chickens out of the coop and make sure they have food and clean water.

Since Donny was off, he ran Jackson to school and I started sorting laundry because it’s been a few days since I have done any. I’m embarrassed to show this picture, but it’s real life and boy is this real.

We needed to get the morning glories cut down from the coop and the bottle tree. That is a chore in itself because the vines are so invasive, strong and can wrap themselves so tightly around whatever they are growing on.

By the time I took this Donny had already cleared the bottle tree and had started burning the dead vines in the fire pit.

The smoke was so bad, but they burned off pretty quickly.

While Donny was cutting away more vines in the garden I was inside tackling the laundry. I actually don’t mind laundry day. I use the Zum Laundry Soap and It makes the outside and inside smell so good.

I did decide to take a break because I was getting so hungry. My avocados were finally ripe so I whipped up some guacamole. It’s so sad that I’m the only one in the house that really likes it. Sad for them at least.

Since it’s getting darker so much earlier now, it pushes my nightly chores up about an hour. These are so important though and I’ve added a new one. There is a mama cat with two kittens that hide out across the street. I had put a food bowl and water buy the drainage ditch that they hang out by. Unfortunately ants got into the food. We have a neighbor on the corner who is always out of town so I put them next to her driveway. Of course she came home and threw the bowls into the street. I asked the neighbor beside her if I could put the food and water against his fence. He said yes, so I did. I guess that corner neighbor called animal control and I got a notice that basically said, Whoever is feeding these cats it is trespassing and you need to remove them asap. Well, I didn’t and I won’t because I have permission from the neighbor and I refuse to let animals starve.

So this is what I walk across the street at dusk.

I found that if I float the food bowl in a pan of water the ants can’t get to it.

After I feed the feral cats, I go put the chickens up. Four go in easily. One likes to roost on the air conditioning unit, but she’s finally jumping off when she sees me to go into the coop. Penelope likes to roost on the bottle tree and is not happy when I have to lift her off. After the coyote, we are being cautious. And every night I go give some love to my neighbor’s neglected dog. He is the sweetest thing and they just throw food in his bowl, never walk or pet him. It’s the saddest thing ever.

The best part of the nightly chores is getting the food ready for our two raccoons, the skunk and possum. I have found that the skunk and raccoons LOVE peanut butter. I do a sandwich and peanut butter crackers. The skunk eats it like a kid would eat an oreo. It opens the cracker sandwich, licks the peanut butter out and then eats the crackers.

Tonight’s menu was ham, mashed potatoes, peanut butter sandwich, peanut butter crackers, peanuts, grapes, frosted mini wheats and marshmallows. They also get a bowl of cat food. I was so happy when I saw the skunk and raccoons eating together. It hasn’t always been that was. I think that they have worked out their problems.

Even though the skunk is small it’s a badass and rules the yard.